What does God have to do with it?

You may questioning from the previous post, what does God have to do with my eating disorder or my low self esteem? Maybe you don't even believe in God, maybe your like I have to be all religious now to feel pretty, or maybe you even hate God or blame God for the way you are and the life you have, maybe you even think its punishment from God that you aren't skinny and suffer with this eating disorder?

Well first question to be answered..... God has EVERYTHING to do with overcoming your low self-esteem and eating disorder. If it wasn't for my faith in God, I would not be here right now writing this blog, helping you.

Now you be thinking either 1) I have to be all religious now? or 2) I don't believe in God, so there's no hope me, right?

WRONG for both questions!

No you don't have to be religious now, God has NOTHING to do with religion. All  you need is FAITH!

"Faith means being sure of the things we hope for and 

knowing that something is real even if we do not see it." 

Hebrews 11:1

And yes YOU reader, have faith! Yes you, You, I repeat myself YOU reader have faith. Maybe your like I don't even believe in God, well  dear reader God knows you inside and out, even if you believe in Him not, and He wants to show you that He is real and He has nothing to do religion, and He wants to transform your life as He transformed my life. Just  Believe dear reader, God Loves You, Yes God Loves You. And God can transform your life as He transformed mines.

"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only son, 

that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life."

John 3:16

Now you be thinking, oh this is another Christian blog.... WRONG... again! 

This will not be another Christian blog, we are here to teach you the path of life,of a FAITH that actually works and gives results.

This will be a blog to help transform your life... who you are inside and out!

Give this blog a try, don't stop reading it, I guarantee you, if you put the advice we (Madeline and I) give to you and put it into PRACTICE, you will get results, GUARANTEED!

As I stated earlier maybe you hate God or blame God for the way you... maybe you say....

"Why did God make me like this then?" "Why did God give me such a big nose, or Why did God have to make me with such wide thighs, or Why did God have to make me with such a fat, chubby face?"

"For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb.

I praise you because I am FEARFULLY and WONDERFULLY made; 

your works are wonderful, I know that full well."

Psalms 139:13-14

God made you the way you are for  a reason, to stand out, to make a difference with your red hair, big nose, wide thighs, chubby face. It is stated in the Bible you are FEARFULLY and WONDERFULLY made, God took His time in creating you, He made you the way for a reason. Give God a chance, and He will show you why you were made the way you were made, and most importantly He help you LOVE who you are, as I am learning to love ME, that way I am!

Plus, Why do you want blend in like everyone else?

So today I challenge you reader to learn to love the thing you wish you could change the most about your body? 

I am learning to love my chubby face and hips :-)

To motivate each other, leave a comment stating what you are going to learn to love the most about your body?

For you reader, who doesn't know much about God and you want to learn about using your FAITH, I suggest for you to go to a quiet place and make a prayer, I guarantee you God will be listening to your prayers, His ears will be all yours.

 Didn't you always want a guy to listen to all of your problems? Well Jesus has His ears all wide open to hear what you have to say, and be honest, God loves honestly, say what you truly feel about God, let everything out, get everything off your chest. Then you will feel like a huge weight lifted off your shoulders... Give it a try, it won't hurt ;-)

Mirror Mirror

“Mirror Mirror on the Wall, Who Is the Fairest of Them All?”

Has the mirror become your enemy? Well you are not alone. there was a moment in my life that all mirrors were my enemy. I could not see myself in the mirror because I hated what I saw. I would see this chubby girl with huge eyes and chubby cheeks. I would see the love handles the thick thighs, etc. It was a battle for me. As I looked into the mirror , I would hear voices , " you aren't pretty, you will never be skinny, your fat, no one loves you, kill yourself, take diets pills, dont eat, throw up, drink  and take drugs, everything you can imagine I heard looking at the mirror. And I took every word I heard and put them into practice. I did everything what the mirror told me to do. But let me tell yo something, the mirror was lying to me. If you read the previous post " you are beautiful" you can see that all those things that the mirror told me was a complete lie. Want to know another reason why. Well let me teach you something I didn't know when I was fighting this battle. 

So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.Genesis 1:27

We were created in the image of God. And trust me God is not ugly. He is beautiful, amazing, loving, caring, He is everything! So if we were made in His image and we say these awful things about ourselves, we are in fact telling them to God as well. After all we are his image. God does not make anything ugly, or wrong. He doesnt make things with effects, or wrong things. He is our creator so why should we have a say to discriminate his art work. We have to go against that voice we hear in the mirror and hear what our mind says. We don't have to look a certain way, get plastic surgery, and do all crazy stuff to perfect our image. The true beauty comes within. The next time you look at yourself in the mirror and those voices pop up think about good things about yourself. How smart you are, or how talented you are. I have learned to kill bad with good. So when I learned that and was fighting that battle (that at times still fight) I start thinking about good things about myself. I know its going to be hard at first, but who said it was going to be easy? But when you do this you will see a change, you will see how you have the control. Dont let that mirror deceive you. Be strong!

If you really dont like the way you look and see that it can cause health issues then take a step into doing something healthy that can help you. For example, start exercising, change your eating habits, etc.
If you see that its not that and its just something else. Then engage in your spiritual life. Get a hold of God and tell him what is bottles inside. Tell him. Working on your spiritual life  you will see and learned true beauty is what is inside.

You can overcome this. I know you can but you have to trust in yourself. I once hated myself. Now i love myself.

Who are letting win? The mirror or you?

- Madeline

You are Beautiful

Hi, my name is Danielle. I am 21 years old. I suffered with bulimia since I was about 13 years old, and I must say living with this disease is HORRIBLE!!! 

I know what you, reader, go through when you look at the mirror, and all you do is criticize, criticize, and criticize some more.

All you see is those so called "big" thighs or "big" arms, or "chubby face", or that so called HUGE stomach!

I know how it is like to wish you had Jennifer Lopez's or Kourney Kardashian's body.

I know how it is like to wish you could eat whatever you wanted and not gain a single pound.

I know how it is like when you look in the mirror and you HATE what you see.

I know how it is like to eat so much so much, and then have the regret afterwards, and all you can think about is how to get rid of the calories.

I know how it is like to hate those chubby cheeks and to hate those so called "love handles".

I know how it is like to starve yourself.

 I know how it is like to force yourself to vomit.

I know hot it is like to overexercise on a completely empty stomach. 

I know how it is like to be completely obsessed with your weight, it its all you think about. 

I know how it is like to look in the mirror and just think you are most ugliest girl in the world.

I know how it is like to wish you never existed.

I know how it is like to ask all day long why can't I just be skinny, why me, why do I go through this.

I know how it is like to look at yourself in the mirror and see the fattest girl in the world.

I know how it is like I know EXACTLY what is like and what you are going through!

Yes, trust me, I do know what you are going through, because I was once like you obessed with my weight, depressed because I didn't have a body like so and so. 

You may be thinking I don't what you are going through, but I DO, I lived your life once, but I had my life transformed, and so can you. 

BUT I AM HERE TO TELL YOU ITS All LIES YOU ARE NOT UGLY, YOU ARE INDEED BEAUTIFUL.

YES YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL THE EXACTLY THE WAY YOU ARE!

STOP TODAY, TELLING YOURSELF YOU ARE UGLY, YOU ARE FAT, YOU DESERVE TO DIE OR THAT YOU RATHER DIE THAN BE FAT, STOP STOP STOP!!!!

DON'T YOU HATE LAIRS, I KNOW I DO, WELL YOU ARE A LAIR, DO YOU KNOW HOW? BECAUSE YOU KEEP CALLING YOURSELF UGLY, AND THAT IS THE BIGGEST LIE ON THIS PLANET, BECAUSE YOU ___________, ARE SIMPLY BEAUTIFUL! 

You can be 100 or 400 pounds, you can be 13 years old or 100 years old, it doesn't matter, BECAUSE YES YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.

GO LOOK LOOK AT YOURSELF RIGHT NOW IN THE MIRROR AND SAY I AM BEAUTIFUL, YES I AM BEAUTIFUL THE WAY I AM!

I will be re-starting this blog today, to help young girls and woman LOVE who they are regardless of their weight, skin color, age, race, or religion.

I am here to help those girls who suffer with bulimia and/or anorexia, I want to help you in your battle to overcome this horrendous diesease.

Because if I overcame it, YOU, can too GUARANTEED!!

 E-Mail me at Dani2034@gmail.com

BELIEVE THAT YOUR LIFE CAN CHANGE, BECAUSE IF MY LIFE CHANGED SO CAN YOURS, JUST BELIEVE!

Starting TODAY you will learn to love your curves,YES YOU ARE GOING TO LOVE YOUR BODY, as I am learning to LOVE my body!

Don't Ever Give Up

Please take a moment to watch this video, it will be worth your time.

For 

The video says it all... 

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What We think, We Become

Faith is directly linked with intelligence and thought: you read, you believe, you do, you trust.

Don't let your feelings dictate what you believe that you will have, be and do

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